Henny Agustini Oey - Hidajat

My most loving and caring niece, Ching ching, always there for the family and always connects us together. From checking the family in whatsapp groups to creating zoom meeting to connects us. I cherished all the memories and holidays we spent together. A cheerful and positive girl that always ready to give a helping hand. Though we are miles apart, you are always close to my heart. 
Your presence will definitely be missed by many, but we are glad that you are in better place.

Dear Henny's family, I am deeply sorry to hear about Henny. I knew Henny because we were in the same high school, never had enough time to know her during school time. Until we met in the yahoo list in 2005. She had a warm heart and we talked about Xander. Henny became my supporter because she liked to read my writings. She were such a blessing to me, even we never met again in person, but she kept reminding me to write more. She will be always remembered as a good friend, with a warm heart and a very grateful person. My deep condolences for the family, you are in our prayers. 

We were friends since our childhood, and kept in touch for more than 45 years.

A smart girl with a golden heart, that was my first impression about her. And as I started to know her family, I learned that she inherited the golden heart from her parents. 

She shared her health problem since the very beginning, and throughout her optimistic time going through all the challenges on the way til the very end. She has never surrendered until God decided to take her into heaven.

To Rian and Xander, I shared the sadness together with you for losing such a lovely person. She will live forever in our memory.

To Iie Mei Wen and Asuk Junus Hidajat, Asiok, Alun, may God strengthen your souls to bear the farewell with her.

Dear Val, Xander & Family,

Hugs and prayers for you, may God give you strength to go through this time of grieving.

Ci Henny always put others first, and we will always be grateful for her kindness. Ci Henny and Val were one of our biggest supporters during our wedding. We can't thank you enough for all that you have done for us, you are family to us.

I will never forget the wisdom and love she gave me. It feels like I've known her much longer than five years; she went from being a colleague to one of the closest people I have in the Netherlands. Having her in my life is a blessing and a privilege.

Thank you to Val and Xander for your strength through these difficult years, Henny often praised your support when we spoke.

We will always remember Ci Henny for her inspiring spirit and unwavering optimism, and try to live as she did, with hope and determination. Our condolences for your loss.

Dearest Ko Val, Xander, Tante Mei Wen, Om Junus,

Thank you for all the good that you had brought into Henny’s life. You have shaped so much of who she is, and we all were so much shaped by who she was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and we remain yours, in times of need, and remembrance.

I miss you, Ci Henny! While work brought us together with countless lunches and discussion, we found our way to friendship and shared life’s most precious moments. I’ve always admired your intellect and humbleness. You will be dearly missed for your positivity, sense of humour, and caring personality. Your determination is always inspirational to us.

It feels very strange to know that you are not around anymore, when you used to be just a text away. You will always stay in our hearts, Ci Hen…

With all our love,

Vicki, Flo & Mateo 🫶🏻

Henny,

I know that you are at peace now after brave fight, but I still miss you a lot: miss your smile, your patience, your kindness and thoughtfulness, miss your hug and miss your food.

You are such a wonderful teacher and friend since I joined Allseas: you helped me picking up the work, answered all my questions even at add times, you invited me for your yummy homemade lunch. You sent me flowers when I sick, delivered congee to me when I cannot eat, I cannot express how much i appreciate you around.

I will miss you forever.

Be strong, Valeranus and Alexander. May all the love with you.

When I met her for the first time at Allseas, she was a very quiet person and focused doing her job, not knowing years later she was sent to the USA, Australia and came back after completed her assignments. I was proud of her for getting such a good position in her job.

I was blessed to be able to get to know her, a fantastic listener and from time to time we talked about places to go for holidays. She suggested Rothenberg in Germany which I followed, regretfully now I would not be able to tell her all about it.  

Although she is not around anymore, my memory of her will stay as a humble and kind friend, who loved her family very much.

Rest in peace Henny  

Henny is truly a person with a beautiful soul, always caring for others, always with a smile.  She has fought courageously with such a strong faith in God.  Rest peacefully Hen, I will always cherish the memories, you will always be in our hearts, we will always remember your kindness, your determination to live life to its fullest with so much courage.

Cei,

You are the best caring Sister in the world. Words cannot describe of what you have done. You have a beautiful , kind and warm heart. You are a problem solver and willing to help me whenever I needed you. You always there to give and help without complaining even though it made you into a difficult position. I will missed you for anything you have done for me. I will always remember you in my life. Rest well , till we meet again.

Rian and Alexander, deepest condolences.

Henny,

You have a heart of gold, always bringing warmth and kindness to those around you. Your strength was truly inspiring. I will miss you.

I will forever cherish the precious memories we shared. You were a wonderful teacher and a friend when I joined Allseas; I will miss your kindness. Your determination and your love for life will always stay with me.

Rest peacefully, dear Henny. You will never be forgotten.💖

Henny had an incredible sense of humour that could light up any room. We were blessed crossing Henny’s road at work and it was always a pleasure to share lunch and all discussions with her, a calm but so strong woman.

Once she convinced us it won’t rain in NL when we were coming on business trip. It didn’t rain, it snowed…. And her reply to this is “hi, you ask me only about rain” and she laughed out loud. Her capability to bring joy and laughter to those around her was truly a gift. She was always in such a good mood, spreading positivity. It's hard to imagine a world without her. She was always taking the time to meet out one evening when we came to Delft, so that will be the last pix we can share with her.

In any moments, Henny was always there, offering her help and her wide knowledge.

Please know that our thoughts are with you during this time of sorrow. May you find comfort in the cherished memories and the love that Henny shared with us all.

Rina & Vanessa

Dear Henny,

You were more than a colleague, together with Vicki we also had very nice moments outside of work. I got to know you as a sweet, warm and caring person and admire your strength and courage and how you remained so positive during your illness. You wanted to continue working as much as possible and make your contribution and you always continued to do this with full dedication.
This was very admirable and truly inspiring.

You will be remembered and greatly missed. Rest in peace.

To Henny’s husband, son, family and friends, my deepest condolences. May you be comforted by the beautiful memories you have with her.

Lots of love from

Cici ching ching is a very positive and cheerful person that always makes people around her happy.
Although we didn’t get to see each other often, we cherished the time we spent together. Ko Rian and Ci Ching always welcome us when we visit Netherlands and takes time to take us around. 

We get to spend our last holiday together in Perth and thats when she met my boys. They enjoyed spending time with her too.
Ci Ching, Nate will definitely miss his “most pretty ieie” (As how Nate always refer to her).

Rest peacefully Ci Ching, you will forever be in our hearts.

To Ko Rian and Xander, we are sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love and strength.

"Kuku Chingching", you always insisted me to call you this way. You are the most caring and lovely untie to me. Although I only met you on our family gatherings, but I always remember your smile and kindness. I am glad that you are in better place now. 

to Om Rian and Alexander, my deepest condolences.

Henny is a warm hearted soul always there to help; thoughtful, strong and patient ; Henny radiates positivity able to see funny sides of things even in difficulty   

Our family have known Henny before destiny brought her to NL to be with our cousin Rian. My sisters and I have fond memories of our uni days in Perth and ICYO.   Perth was a sleepy town in our 20s we had plenty of time to hang out go out talk about common life issues or girls stuff as she grew up with only brothers 

Smart academically always scores well including GMAT score that was easy for her ….later in her professional life we also have the privileged of working with Henny - ikapharmindo , oriental merchant before she moved to NL.

Henny told us the news one day before Rian showed up in Melbourne for 1 Day.  A special trip that sweep her off her feet and brought her to a new life in NL; where she picked up Dutch found a job and starts a new life as a wife and mother….An Adaptive individual always able to whether what life presents her with.

Henny has fought her battle she remained dedicated as a wife mother and a caring daughter to her parents until the end

We will miss you much …..that happy smiles you have will always remain in our memories.

You will have a special place next to “Bapak Di Surga” where there is no suffering. 

Farewell Hen….Rest in Peace… until we meet again.

May Rian Alexander Tante Mei Wen be granted with  strength during this difficult times.

Dear Henny,

Deeply saddened to hear about your passing. Life is sometimes unfair to the kindest and most warming persons. You were part of my whole working life as a valued colleague.

I remember vividly that you enthusiastically showed me around in my early days (fresh from university) during one of our company’s vessel conversions, you were working on at that time.

You were always present during the various diners and parties held by our department or by the company. Even during your illness you always appreciated it, when I forwarded you pictures or updates from the company. You also regularly asked about my personal well-being, congratulated me on my birthday and forwarded me your Christmas’ and New Year’s wishes.

I will miss and admire your warm, friendly and positive attitude towards me and my colleagues, and in life in particular. The void you leave behind is already noticed.

To Val, Alexander and family I want to express my deepest condolences. I hope Henny’s friendly, warm and positive attitude will give you the strength you need.

We'll remember your beautiful smile, optimism and friendship. You'll be in our hearts forever.

You’ve shown me courage, you’ve taught me how to be brave. I am blessed and grateful to have known you as my cousin.

Rest in peace dear Cei, your warmth and bright smile will always be treasured close to my heart. 

Ko Rian and Xander, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort during this difficult time. 
 

Vera

Rest in peace, dear Cei Cei. Now, you are in the embrace of our Father in Heaven, free from pain.

You always offered insightful, wise and often humorous perspectives. To me, you were not only intelligent but kind-hearted, and despite your wisdom, you never once made anyone feel inferior. You were a joy to converse with, and our talks no matter the topic, were always something I looked forward to.

Even though we were separated by distance and didn’t see each other often, I always felt a deep and lasting connection with you. It’s hard to put into words how proud I am to have had you as a cousin. You were like an older sister to me, someone I could turn to with questions, someone who could make me laugh, and someone I could confide in about anything.

To Rian and Xander, my deepest sympathies go out to you both. I pray for strength and courage for you during this incredibly difficult time.

You will always have a special place in my heartCei and you will be missed forever.

Farewell, my beautiful sister. Rest in peace.

Dear Rian, Alexander, family Oey and family Hidajat,

Our deep condolences to you with the indescribable loss of dear Henny.

We met Henny at birthdays of our family in Den Haag and remember her kindness and warmth when we talked to each other. We admire how Henny kept her faith and positivity in difficult times.

May her love stay with you and God's comfort strengthen you in the difficult times ahead.

Dear Val, Xander & Family,

Henny was more than a colleage, sharing precious life moments, walks, lunches, shopping hauls at the Orient and nice and inspiring conversations. Her presence, humor and wisdom made such a difference for her surroundings

The sweet memories of her warm, positive, intelligent, humble and kind peronality, are kept.

To Val, Alexander and family I want to express my deepest condolences. My heart goes out to you. This is such a huge loss. You are in my prayers.

“He will swallow up death forever; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from all faces, and the reproach of his people he will take away from all the earth, for the Lord has spoken.” Isaiah 25:8 

Dear family of Henny,

First of all, my sincere condolences to you.

I got to know Henny due to our work within Allseas. We weren’t working in the same department but I was the HR Consultant for the department Henny was working for. Unfortunately, because of her illness Henny and I had regular contact about her wellbeing. If I think back about the conversations we had, although the times were hard, Henny always remained hopeful, positive and extremely brave. Henny was honest about that she found it difficult to accept that she could not contribute in her work the way she did. Giving up on work was really no option for her and she did the most that she could. She really wanted to be and feel valuable. I really admire her attitude and the way she dealt with the situation. When I left Allseas last year, Henny mentioned she was very thankful for my help and support during those years. To thank me, Henny brought me a huge box of risolles and pastei. Although it was my work, I am happy that I could make a tiny small difference and it was appreciated by her. Last December I did send a message to Henny via LinkedIn, that she crossed my mind and that I was hoping that she was doing fine and now this very sad news has reached me.

Again, my condolences for your loss. You can be very proud of her; how brave and strong she was. I hope you can find peace that she doesn’t have to struggle anymore but I am sure she will be missed. I wish you all the strength for the coming period.

Dear Henny,

Selamat jalan, may you rest in peace.

Selamat jalan Henny, selamat beristirahat di rumah Bapa di surga.

Dear Henny,

I miss you so much! I miss the years we played squash together, the time we practiced weekly yoga until last year July. I miss the moments of our hart to hart talk, the uncountable times of dinner or lunch at your home! You haven been a special friend for more than 20 years! I will always miss you! 

Dear Val and Alexander,

Be strong and take good care of yourself for the most difficult moment.